All states have agencies that will help you file a request for support of petition family court for the order. Establishing a legal child support obligation is easy if you where to turn for help.
Follow the steps below to find the correct agency and gather the necessary documents.
Contact Your Local Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA)
Even if you have not yet filed to get child support payments, your state’s child support agency can help you get the ball rolling. Some CSEA’s have experts on staff to help you file a claim right in their office. Others may not offer this service, but can direct you to the specific state department or agency that will help you through the process.
The names of these agencies and their services vary by state. The best way to find your local CSEA is to perform a Google search. The agency should have a website that is part of the state’s larger government site. Call the number provided and ask where you should turn for help to get child support payments ordered.
(Call before you walk in to your local CSEA. You may have to wait in line a long time only to find out the services you need are offered elsewhere.)
Non-custodial Parent Information
It is not necessary, but knowing where to locate your child’s parent will help speed up the process. If you know his or her current address, job, their date of birth, social security number, or phone number, bring those details with you to your local agency when you apply. When the courts know how to contact a parent who needs to make child support payments, they can skip the lengthy process of trying to locate them.
If you don’t know the current address, phone number, email, or place of employment for the non-custodial parent, the state will make efforts on your behalf to locate him or her. Write down as much information as you have about his or her last known residence and job.
Birth Certificate and Social Security Number
Whether or not the birth certificate was ever signed by the non-custodial parent, it is required that you present evidence of both the existence of the child and your relationship to the child. If the birth certificate has been signed by the non-custodial parent, it is almost certain (provided there are no ground to contest the order) that your child will be eligible to get child support payments.
A valid social security number (if applicable) for the child is also required in most states. Whether or not you need to present a physical copy of the child’s social security card is up to the local family courts and state agency.
Appearing in Court
It is not always necessary to appear in court, though you may be required to meet with a judge, the non-custodial parent, and other legal representatives to finalize an agreement. If you fear for your safety, explain this to the agency helping you file the request for support. They may be able to advocate for different terms.
If the alleged non-custodial parent disputes their obligation, you may be required to submit your child to DNA testing in order to legally establish the obligation. If the non-custodial parent is unwilling to submit to a test, you may be forced to appear in court to establish an order for the test.
How to File for Child Support & Custody
If a couple with children is not married, but are separating, the significant other that is requesting custody must file for child support and custody if the other partner also wants custody of the children.
1. Draft a petition if this is a new action. If you have already filed a petition for dissolution of marriage, draft a motion. The petition and the motion both ask for the same relief, but a petition is needed to open a case. A motion is used when there is an existing case.
2. Create the heading of the case by including the court information, the parties’ names and the case number. If you are drafting a petition, you will not have a case number until you actually file the action. Leave the case number blank. If you have an open action, copy the heading on the petition for dissolution of marriage.
3. Number each paragraph. Each paragraph is composed of one allegation. In the first paragraph, state the names and dates of birth of the children. For married couples, state that the children were born of the marriage. For unmarried couples, state that the children were born of an unmarried union. If you are the mother, state that the father has accepted the children as his own. If you are the father, state that you are the biological father of the minor children.
4. Add subsequent paragraphs outlining why you should have custody. If you feel the other parent is an inadequate parent, you must include these allegations. The allegations must be true. If the other parent is just as good a parent as you are, you can only request custody and child support—do not make false allegations in an attempt to gain custody. Instead, for example, you might state that the child is used to living in this area and has friends if the other spouse is moving out of the school district.
5. Add a certificate of service at the bottom if you are filing a motion. The certificate of services states that you swear to send a true and correct copy of the motion to the other parent or her lawyer.
6. Sign the document in front of a notary public and have the document notarized. If you are filing a new action and are drafting a petition, you must complete a summons. The summons form is available through the clerk of court, either in person or online. Fill out the summons with the case heading and the other parent’s address. Make two copies of the documents.
7. Bring the documents (including the copies) to the clerk of court. If you are filing a motion in a current divorce action, the clerk will stamp the original and the copies. You must mail a copy of the motion to the other parent. If you are filing a new action (petition), the clerk will stamp the petition and sign the summons. Staple a copy of the summons to a copy of the petition. Bring it to a process server. The process server will serve the other party.
Interview Tips
Helpful tips that lead to success
After nailing the resume question, it’s time to meet the potential employer face to face. This is perhaps the most nerve racking part of the process and perhaps the most influential. Having a great interview is key to getting the job. The 15-20 minutes is your time to sell yourself and tell your story. You need to elaborate on your skills and ease any doubt that your potential employer may have. Below are some of the most successful interview tips we have gathered.
- Research – Know your employer, know every detail about the company.
- Practice – Be confident and know your material.
- Dress to Make a Good First Impression – Overdress if you are unsure because they will judge you.
- Be Conscious of Good Interview Etiquette – Never interrupt, always address them in a respectful professional manner.
- Be Prepared to Ask the Interviewer Questions – This shows initiative and that you have done your research.
- Follow up with a Thank-You Note – They made time to interview, let them know that.
Additionally, here are some other helpful tips one should keep in mind before the interview.
Prepare ahead
The more research you do about your potential employer, the more it shows during the interview about your drive and ambition about working with the company.
Never be late
You should always try to be at the interview 10-15 minutes early. This will give you time to settle down and relax a little before the interview.
Facts and Personality
The interview process consists of explaining your history but it is also an evaluation of your personality fit for that particular company. Staying positive and showing emotion can help demonstrate to your employer how well you can fit in the social culture of the company.
Good luck on your interview!
Resume Tips
Building a resume can be tough. You want your potential employer to have a great first impression before the interview and have the perfect resume is key. A good resume lets your employer know about your background however a great resume tells your story and showcases your potential.
Below are some tips to building that great resume that will hopefully land you your next job:
- Be precise, short is usually the best way to go however in some cases (executive applicants) – a longer resume may be necessary.
- Use bullet points to tell the story, employers need to quickly browse through a ton of resumes and bullets points are key to getting the facts across.
- Be honest, employers will call out every detail of you resume so be ready.
- Be concise and use action words (developed, handled, organized, created, etc) and phrases when describing your experience.
- Be articulate and use verbs – these action words are great for elaborating on your past experiences and duties.
- Double-check everything! – This is perhaps the most important step, a misspelling or grammatical errors can make the biggest difference.
Additional basics you need to include on your resume include: Full name, address, email, contact and references. (when necessary)
Also don’t be shy about the rewards, recognitions, and achievements from your past, employers love talking about those and the more positive conversations, the better the chances.
Depending on the job type, a cover letter may be necessary. These are simple one page summaries that tell the employer a quick overview in paragraph format of your past work, skills, and why you would be a good fit for the job.
Last but certainly not least, follow up. Once you submit a resume, email the contact or the HR department within 3-5 business days to ensure they have received your resume.
Source: http://www.localjobsindex.com
Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program
To apply for benefits, or for information about the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, contact your local SNAP office. You can find local offices and each State’s application on our national map. Local offices are also listed in the State or local government pages of the telephone book. The office should be listed under “Food Stamps,” “Social Services,” “Human Services,” “Public Assistance,” or a similar title. You can also call your State’s SNAP hotline number. Most are toll-free numbers.
Please don’t call us at FNS headquarters to apply. We don’t handle applications for the SNAP here. The State and county offices do that. And we don’t have application forms. Each State has its own application form. If your State’s form is not on the web yet, you’ll need to contact your local SNAP office to request one.
On-line applications? The following States allow you to apply online. Here are their websites:
Source: http://www.fns.usda.gov/snap
Women, Infants and Children Program
Who Gets WIC? To be eligible for the WIC Program, applicants must meet all of the following eligibility requirements:
- Categorical
- Residential
- Income
- Nutrition Risk
Click here for details about WIC’s Eligibility Requirements.
Contact the WIC State or local agency serving your area, to schedule an appointment. Applicants will be advised about what to bring to the WIC appointment to help determine eligibility.
Click here for a listing of the toll-free numbers of WIC State agencies
or click here for a listing of State agencies in alphabetical order .
Many of the State agencies listed provide a toll-free number for you to call and/or a website about the WIC Program operating in that area.
Length of Participation: WIC is a short-term program. Therefore, a participant will “graduate” at the end of one or more certification periods. A certification period is the length of time a WIC participant is eligible to receive benefits. Depending on whether the individual is pregnant, postpartum, breastfeeding, an infant, or a child, an eligible individual usually receives WIC benefits from 6 months to a year, at which time she/he must reapply.
Waiting List/Priority System: Sometimes WIC agencies do not have enough money to serve everyone who needs WIC or calls to apply. When this happens, WIC agencies must keep a list, called a waiting list, of individuals who want to apply and are likely to be served. WIC agencies then use a special system, called a Priority System, to determine who will get WIC benefits first when more people can be served. The purpose of the priority system is to make sure that WIC services and benefits are provided first to participants with the most serious health conditions such as anemia (low blood levels), underweight, history of problems during pregnancy.
Click here for more info about the Waiting List/Priority System.
Moving: WIC participants who move from one area or State to another are placed at the top of a waiting list when they move and are also served first when the WIC agency can serve more individuals. WIC participants who move can continue to receive WIC benefits until their certification period expires as long as there is proof that the individual received WIC benefits in another area or State. Before a participant moves, they should tell the WIC office. In most cases, WIC staff will give the participant a special card which proves that the individual participated in the WIC Program. When the individual moves, they can call the new WIC office for an appointment and take the special card to the WIC appointment in the new area or State.
Source: http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic
Temporary Assistance for Needy Families
What is TANF?:
What is the Goal of TANF?:
How Do I Apply for TANF?:
What Are the Requirements of Parents Receiving TANF?:
What “Work Activities” Qualify?:
What are the “Core Work Activities” That Qualify?:
- Unsubsidized employment
- Subsidized private sector employment
- Subsidized public sector employment
- On-the-job training
- Job search (limited to no more than 4 weeks in a row or 6 weeks total)
- Work experience
- Participation in a community service program
- Vocational education training (limited t 12 months)
- Providing childcare for another TANF recipient engaged in community service
What Are the “Non-Core Activities” That Qualify?:
- Job skills training
- Education related to your employment
- Secondary schooling or a GED program
Are There Exceptions to the Work Rule for Single Parents?:
What Happens If I Am Unable to Meet the Work Requirements?:
Are There Limits to How Long I Can Receive TANF Benefits?:
Yes. In most cases, you can only receive TANF benefits for a maximum of 5 years (or 60 months).
Source: http://singleparents.about.com/od/financialhelp/p/TANF.htm
How to Apply for FAFSA
Getting started
You can pick up a FAFSA in your guidance office by mid-November or online at www.fafsa.ed.gov; however, you can’t file it until January 1 of the year in which you plan to start college (that’s January 1, 2012, for those who hope to start college in September, 2012). You should, however, file as soon after that date as possible, since a great deal of financial aid is delivered on a first come, first served basis. Money is awarded until it runs out; late filers get nothing.
Unfortunately, many students miss out on financial aid opportunities because they fail to meet the filing deadlines. The best financial aid awards (those heavy on grants and lighter on loans) are generally given to the earliest applicants.
Gather your papers
To make sure you’re one of the early birds who receives the most aid possible, work with your parents to start collecting the necessary financial records over the winter holidays. To get organized, you might try putting your paperwork and information into two folders:
Folder 1: Income and Expense Information
All income and expense data come from the prior year (2011 for the 2012/2013 award year). Here’s the financial information you’ll need to collect:
- Taxable income for both parents and student, including wages, pensions, capital gains, interest, dividends, annuities, unemployment compensation, alimony received, rent collected, and business income.
- Non-taxable income for both parents and student, including workers’ compensation, welfare benefits (excluding food stamps), housing and food allowances, child support received, untaxed Social Security benefits, untaxed income from pensions and annuities, veterans’ non-education benefits, tax-exempt interest income, deductible payments made to a retirement plan (such as an IRA or Keogh), and earned income credit.
- Expenses such as U.S. income taxes paid and child support paid.
Folder 2: Asset Information
You must report the net worth of all these assets as of the date you sign the form, so before you record any totals, be sure your family pays off all its bills and pays down any consumer debt, like credit card balances.
- The value of cash, savings, and checking accounts held under the names of parents and the student.
- Net worth of all the parents’ and student’s investments (except for retirement plans), including stocks, bonds, CDs, money market funds, mutual funds, commodities, trust funds, Education IRAs, state-based college savings plans (except pre-paid tuition plans), and real estate holdings (rental property and second homes). You need not include the equity in your family’s primary residence.
- The net worth of any family business and/or farm (excluding farms that are principal residences).
Be accurate
In completing the FAFSA, be as accurate as you can. Mistakes will cause your application to be returned. These errors may include giving monthly amounts instead of yearly amounts, writing in the margins, checking the ovals (rather than filling them in).
If a question or two seems confusing, call the federal student aid hot line at 800-4-FED-AID, or ask a guidance counselor or financial aid administrator. Many colleges now have toll-free numbers for exactly that purpose. If a question still proves troublesome, explain your problem in a letter to the school’s financial aid administrator. Note: You’re less likely to make mistakes if you apply online. FAFSA on the Web includes worksheets, online help, detailed instructions, and a built-in editing tool that helps prevent errors and reduces rejections. You can also get an idea of what the process entails, plus an estimated aid package, using the FAFSA4caster at www.fafsa4caster.ed.gov.
Once you’ve gathered all your financial data, the FAFSA is pretty straightforward. Answer each question unless the FAFSA specifically tells you it’s a step you can skip. Let’s review each section:
1. Student name, rank, and serial number
Questions 1–17 cover the personal basics: the student’s name, e-mail address, permanent address, Social Security number, date of birth, permanent phone number, driver’s license number, citizenship status, and marital status.
2. Student background
Questions 18–31 deal mostly with:
- The student’s educational plans.
- The highest level of education completed by the student’s mother and father.
- The student’s state of legal residence.
- The types of aid for which he or she wants to be considered (for example, loans and/or work-study). To maximize your chances for receiving aid, you should indicate a willingness to accept loans and work-study. You can always change your mind later.
- Registration for the Selective Service (military). If you’re male, age 18–25, you may use this section to register. (In most instances, male students must be registered to receive federal student aid.)
- Drug offenses. If you’ve never been convicted of a drug offense, simply check the “No” box and move on. If, however, you do have a past drug-related conviction, you may be ineligible for federal student aid.
3. Student income and assets
The first three questions (32–34) ask about your tax filing status—which tax return you will file, and whether you have already completed this tax return. If at all possible, complete your return before you tackle this part of the FAFSA. Much of the information is the same. For example, your adjusted gross income, U.S. income tax paid, and number of exemptions. The FAFSA even gives you the exact 1040 line reference numbers.
Questions 35–47 cover student income and assets. Dependent students may find that some of these income and asset questions do not apply. In this case, enter “0.” An unanswered question can get your FAFSA returned with a “request for additional information.’’ This will hold up the processing of your form and could jeopardize the amount of funding you will receive.
4. Dependent vs. independent
Questions 48–54 address the student’s dependency status. Students who meet one of these criteria may skip Step 4—you’re an “independent” student and your eligibility for financial aid will be determined without consideration of your parents’ income and assets.
You’re independent if you are:
- 24 years old by December 31 of the award year.
- A graduate or professional student during the award year.
- Married (or separated).
- A parent or have other dependents who currently receive more than half their support from you.
- An orphan or a ward of the court.
- A veteran of the U.S. Armed Forces.
As we move further away from the traditional “Ozzie and Harriet” families of the 1950s, schools may determine dependent status based on “unusual” living circumstances—being raised by grandparents or by same-sex parents, unwed parents, or common-law parents. Ask your school if you are unsure of your own “dependency” status.
5. Parents’ personal data
In questions 55–69, dependent students must provide information about their parents’ marital status, Social Security numbers, number of household members (including the number who will be enrolled in college at least half time), state of legal residence, and the age of the older parent. Each of these elements affects the calculation for your Expected Family Contribution (EFC), so answer the questions carefully. For example:
- Older parents are expected to contribute less since they are closer to retirement.
- Parental contribution is divided by the number of students in college.
- If the parents are divorced or separated, include only the financial data on the parent with whom the student lives for the greater part of the 12 months preceding the date of the application. For example, if that parent has remarried, the student must include that stepparent’s income and asset data as well. Note: Some colleges request information on the “other” natural parent and may expect a contribution from that parent as well.
6. Parents’ tax filing status
The next three questions ask you about your parents’ tax filing status. Again, try to complete tax returns before you tackle the FAFSA. Most colleges will eventually ask to see a copy of your family’s signed tax return, and your FAFSA numbers must come within a $400 tolerance range. If you are outside this range, the college will ask you to make corrections to your form. Again, this could put you at serious risk for losing valuable funding.
The FAFSA also asks whether you are eligible to file a 1040A or 1040EZ (even if you filed a regular 1040). If you and your parents can answer “yes” to this question and your annual incomes are below $50,000, your family’s assets will be excluded from consideration entirely.
7. Parents’ income and assets
Questions 73–83 cover parental income and assets. It is important to indicate whether earned income is from two workers or only one. Where there are two workers, the family receives an additional allowance that helps increase the applicant’s eligibility for aid. This allowance also applies to a single parent household when that parent has earnings from work.
The EFC calculation is based primarily on the family’s adjusted gross income (AGI), however, it is designed to reflect the financial strength of the household, so it counts untaxed income as well. Worksheets A and B (Questions 78 and 79) are used to collect this data, while Worksheet C (Question 80) covers items that families may exclude from income, for example, child support paid, taxable work-study earnings, scholarship aid that was included with AGI, Hope Tax Credits, and Lifetime Learning Credits.
Remember to be truthful. The FAFSA now collects your parents’ Social Security numbers to make it easier for the Department of Education to verify income reported on the FAFSA with the Internal Revenue Service (IRS).
Many people think the “net worth” of their assets will eliminate them from aid consideration. Parents, however, receive an allowance to shelter some of their assets and even then they must contribute only a small percentage of the balance; less than six percent.
8. Independent students only
Independent students must answer a couple of quick questions about the number of people in their household and the number of household members who will be enrolled as college students during the upcoming academic year. Answers to these questions affect your EFC.
9. List your colleges
Good news: You fill out the FAFSA only once regardless of how many colleges you’re considering. Questions 86–97 ask students to list the colleges that are to receive the processed data and indicate their housing plans at each. (Do you intend to live on campus, off campus, or with parent?) This helps aid administrators better determine their cost of attendance.
To make sure your data goes to the correct school, record each school’s federal school code. You’ll find these codes online (www.fafsa.ed.gov) or in your high school guidance office.
If you cannot locate the correct school code, be careful to include the school’s complete name, address, city, state, and zip. (The processor won’t know whether “U. of M.” refers to the University of Michigan or the University of Maryland.)
10. Sign and date the form
Finally, students (and parents) must sign and date the form. In doing so, they certify that (if requested) they will provide information (for example, a copy of their tax return) to verify any recorded data.They also declare that they are not in default on any federal student loans and promise to use any federal student aid for educational purposes only.
If the form was completed by someone outside your immediate family, that person must sign and date the form as well. There is nothing wrong with getting help with your FAFSA; however, the Department of Education wants to know—that way it can clear up innocent misunderstandings, as well as detect patterns of fraud.
Note: Never mail your tax return with your FAFSA. Processing centers are only interested in the financial data you provide on your FAFSA. They have paper shredders that destroy any income tax returns included in the envelope. Also, don’t mail your tax return to a college or university unless requested.
What happens next?
Three to four weeks after families mail in their FAFSA, they will receive a multi-part document called a Student Aid Report (SAR). If you recorded an e-mail address on your paper FAFSA or you filed your FAFSA online, you will receive an e-mail that links you to your SAR online.
The SAR lists all the information you included on your aid application and tells you how much money you’ll be expected to contribute to college costs. This is your EFC (Expected Family Contribution). The information will also be sent electronically to the schools you designate and your home state’s scholarship agency (as well as the state agency of every school on your list).
Review your SAR very carefully. If there are any mistakes (for instance, if a $500 has become a $5,000) send the correction back to the processor immediately. It is now up to the college financial aid administrator to take all this information, determine your eligibility for student aid, and develop your financial aid package.
– Anna Lieder
Applying for Medicaid
To qualify for Medicaid long-term care services you have to have limited income and resources. You must also meet other requirements such as:
- age;
- if you are pregnant;
- if you are disabled;
- if you are blind; or
- if you are a U.S. citizen or a lawfully admitted immigrant.
In addition, to quality for Medicaid long-term care services you must require a certain amount of assistance with personal care like bathing and dressing called Activities of Daily Living. These rules vary from state-to-state. To see if Medicaid may pay for your long-term care services, you need to find out if you are eligible for the program. You can start by reviewing the Medicaid Eligibility Requirements for long-term care.
How do you apply for Medicaid long-term care services?
To apply for Medicaid for long-term care services, you will have to:
- Fill out an application form
- Provide documentation to verify general and financial requirements
- Go through a functional eligibility assessment.
You may apply for Medicaid coverage or you may designate another person, such as a family member, your attorney, or a friend, to apply for you. If someone else apples for you, that person should be familiar with your situation, be able to answer all eligibility questions, and have access to your financial records. The state may also require a face-to-face interview.
If you own a home, the state may ask you to document the current fair market value of the home and any loans for the home, such as mortgages or equity loans. The state may ask for these documents:
- A current tax bill
- A real estate appraisal
- Copies of your mortgage
If your savings went down a lot within the past five years, the state may ask you to show evidence of what you did with the money. If you are married and in a nursing home, you will also be asked to document your assets when you first entered the nursing home—this establishes how much your spouse is able to keep.
Where do you apply for Medicaid?
All states have local Medicaid eligibility offices where you can file applications. Many states also provide applications at different locations in your community, including Aging and Disability Resource Centers. In some states, you can also apply online.
Visit your State Medical Assistance Office to find out where you can apply for Medicaid benefits.
When should you apply for Medicaid?
The best time to apply for Medicaid depends on your medical situation, your marital status, and the complexity of your finances. If your finances are straightforward, the state may be able to process your application faster.
The Medicaid agency usually has 45 days to process your application. If the application requires a disability determination, the agency can take 90 days.
It may take longer to apply for Medicaid if you do not provide the required documents on time. If Medicaid thinks that you are not cooperating, it may deny your application for “administrative reasons.” If this happens, you will have to start your application over again once you have your documents in hand.
If the Medicaid agency determines that you are eligible, you will receive a letter with your date of eligibility and the amount you must pay toward the cost of your care. Medicaid will review your eligibility status every year. During the yearly review, you will be need to document your income and assets again. The review process is usually simpler than the original application process.
If the Medicaid agency determines that you are not eligible, you will receive a letter that explains the reason for denial. The notice will also explain how you can appeal the decision.
Source: http://www.longtermcare.gov